Why I Go To An All-Girls School














I have touched on this before in my previous blog posts, however I've never fully addressed the topic. I want to be comfortable sharing parts of my life in this space and I think it's time I tell you a bit about where I go to school. As you can tell by the title, I go to an all-girls college.

As a child, I was a massive tom-boy. If you told me I would be going to an all-girls school when I was ten, I would laugh in your face and tell you "never in a million years!" Obviously, things change. By no means am I saying that I am not a tom-boy now because that is not the case. All I wanted to do when I was younger was be like my brothers. I made my mom buy my clothes from the boys section and I loved sports. As I got older, I learned that being a girl didn't mean I had to wear pink and like Barbies. When I was about 12, I realized that being a girl could mean more than one thing. Whether I knew it or not, this was my first thought as a feminist.

Of course coming here I knew I would be surrounded with other feminists (and I love it!). I came to this school because I knew I would be pushed here more than anywhere else. This college incorporates what it means to be a woman in majority of it's classes. I had no idea I would be able to learn so much about myself in my mass media class. I feel myself growing into the woman with each course I take. The classes are comfortable, both mentally and physically; meaning everyone is friendly with one another and most of us wear our sweats to class. It is a judgement-free zone because everyone is going through similar things. We all stack our schedules up but we still enjoy every moment. The community here is unlike any other school and I would never change that.

In addition to going to class in our pjs, we all enjoy each others company. There is no set cliques or limits on who I can and cannot hang out with. The special people with whom I spend most of my time with are the kindest people I've ever met. I've never felt so comfortable with a group of people this quickly. We made so many memories and in the blink of an eye our freshmen year was over. When we came back after summer break, it was like nothing had even happened. We enjoy having movie nights which include cuddling on the couch whilst eating Ben & Jerry's. Even though we like staying in our beds in our pajamas, we like to have a good night out. There is a big university across the street from our little school, so we go over there on Friday's or Saturday's (or gasp!... both nights). Whether we are in our dorms or at a party, I know that these girls will always be there for me. We have a weird way of connecting and most of the time we know what each other are thinking, without even speaking. I cannot thank these girls enough for what they've done for me. I cannot imagine doing college without them. They are the sisters I never had and I know we will be friends for a very long time.

In my opinion, this was the only move for me. I had the hardest time choosing a school and I decided to come here because it was the most unique and scariest option. It is the best of both worlds. We have a small liberal arts all-girls school and there is a big university across the street that we go to for social events. Most fall weekends there is a football game or party across the street that we can go to. Coming to this school, I threw myself into living with only girls (which I've never done before) who were mostly Catholic (which I knew little about). I knew I would benefit from living in a place with people unknown to me. I have learnt so much in so many different ways and I can honestly say that an all-girls school is not how I thought it would be.

Although I was very independent before I came here, now I have become a massive supporter for  gender-equality. I have realized our society's mistakes and my aim is to change that. I hold everyone at the same standards (no matter what gender you are). I think it is important that everyone is treated equally and have the right to be themselves without feeling the need to fall under a specific category laid out by society. I hope that anyone reading this knows it is good to be strong, but its also good to be weak sometimes. Whether we like it or not, we all know that men are always supposed to be the big strong one and women are supposed to be the petite fragile one. I have never been able to take this stereotype seriously because I am big and strong. No one should have to be small. This is what my college is teaching me; there is no set way to do things.

I know you may still be thinking that an all-girls school is still awful, but once you step foot on campus you will understand what all the fuss is about. There's this weird sense of sisterhood we have here and it's a very unique community. I do not regret choosing this school. Sure, sometimes I wonder what 'normal' college is like, then I visit my friends at their school and realize how much drama they have with all of their friends and I thank God we don't have that here. All-girls school isn't for everyone, but you have to admit it sounds kinda fun. Every night is like a sleepover with your best friends and we say we are one big sorority.

Check out my weirdo friends and I below ---------











7 Things I Am Loving In College

Hello lovely readers! Yes, I have been away for a while, but that is because I have a thing called college. This past week has been very busy and I'm slowly, but surely getting through it. While I've been studying for five exams, these seven things have kept me going. First off is a Brita water bottle; this water bottle is super durable and has a filter system in it so I don't have to worry about using the sink for drinking water. I've been trying to drink as much water as I can throughout the day to keep me hydrated and to keep my skin healthy. The second thing I have been loving are my beats head phones. They block everything out. I love using these when I'm studying and I need to focus. Sometimes I just put them on without any music playing because they work so well! Another one of my favorite things on this list is of of course an food item: almond butter. This nut butter is the healthier option to peanut butter. While my skinny roommates chow down on JIF peanut butter, I stick to this and I'm happy with it!  It is the cure to any stressed out college student and it goes with anything.

In the past week, my skin has taken a turn for the worst. A visit from aunt flow, a full schedule, and greasy (but so worth it) pizza is the perfect combination for a skin outbreak. I have been using tea tree oil and Cetaphil to fix my skin. Every morning and night, I wash my face with Cetaphil and I have really seen an improvement in my skin. This product leaves my face feeling super soft and clean. It's a very gentle and simple cleanser that gets the job done! I use tea tree oil after cleansing my face. I dab a bit of this oil onto a cotton pad and apply it to any red spots or pimples. With the help of these two products and my daily moisturizer, my skin has been improving.

The last two things are essential if you attend a big university with a well known sports team. Football is a massive thing at my school and I always wear these two things on game days. The first one is pretty obvious: a game day shirt. Most students wear this shirt on game day to show school spirit. I tend to pair this t-shirt with some high-waisted jean shorts or cropped leggings. For ultimate comfort, I always wear Chacos to the game. After hours of tailgating, the students have to stand for what could be another four hours watching the game. These shoes are stylish and are very supportive for your feet. I got this pair this summer and I wear them with everything. These shoes have super high arches in them, so my feet never get too sore after standing on them for a long period of time.

So, there it is. These are a few of the things I have been loving this semester. Let me know what kinds of things you've been loving recently.

Here are a few more photos I took:









Here are some pictures of my friends and I from previous games:


LOVE THE ND. 

Hope you all have a wonderful rest of your week (TGTIF: thank God tomorrow is Friday)


Meg xx

Dorm Room Tour


It's that time again. I moved into college about a week ago and I'm finally settled in. This semester, we are living in a castle. Le Mans hall is the most legendary dorm on campus. It is absolutly beautiful. My roommates and I had a blast this past week decorating our little home. Our ceilings are super high and we have so much space. Since there are only three of us living in a quad (four person dorm) we have extra storage. Instead of using this storage for clothes or other necessities, we took it upon ourselves to turn the extra dresser into a pantry. One of my other favorite parts of the room is my little nook. I have my desk, bed, and painted canvases all tucked into the same corner. While my roommates have the other corner where one bed is lofted under another. Our futon is adorned with a multitude of throw pillows from T.J Maxx and World Market. It's a mix n'match kind of dorm, but we love it. I'm looking forward to the memories this year. Things like our late night trips to CyberCafe for frozen yogurt and Diet Coke, our movie marathons, and our countless dance parties are all things I will remember when I look back on my college years with my belles.










Hope you enjoyed this photos.
-Meg

The Future?

I just raced down my stairs to the living room in the pitch black to retrieve my laptop. I was scared shitless. But now I'm here. Ready to rant about these little thoughts in my head that have been keeping me awake for the past two hours.

It's been a strange night. I'm mad, confused, and disappointed in myself. This could just be a series of unfortunate events that led to my sudden discovery or this was meant to happen; either way, I feel like shit. I'm not trying to rant about how I'm not good enough. I know I am good enough, I have it in me. I just have to find the right way to reach my success.

Tonight it dawned on me that the place I called home for the past year may not help me in the future. I have an idea. A brilliant idea that is building in my brain and one day I will be able to pursue it. My possibilities are endless. But sometimes I feel limited by my small private school. I should know by now. I should know what I need to do in order to be who I want to be when I'm grown up (even though I'm already 19 agh!!) I wish I could just blog for the rest of my life about my favorite things, travel around the world with my super hot boyfriend and eventually settle down and start a family in our cute little house on a lake. But sadly, the reality is I'm just another confused college kid who has to make up their mind within the next year. The thought of deciding on a major makes me want to vomit (or run into my room and hide under my duvet with my cuddly cats until the world seems less scary.)

I know I can be successful at this school. It's just a process of finding out the best way to do so. I wish I knew all that I know now when I was looking at colleges. I wish I would've known that playing club field hockey isn't all that I thought it'd be. I wish I would've known that this school can suffocate you, if you let it. I wish I would've forced my parents to let me look at art schools. I wish.. I wish.. I wish.. The list could go on. The truth is, I love it there. I love the friends I have made and the person I have become. It is the perfect fit for me. I have to accept that I'm limited to broad majors such as Communications and Business instead of Creative Advertising, PR, and Marketing. I can make it. I know I can get to the place and person I have been dreaming of. Life wouldn't be life without a few life-changing challenges along the way.

So I sit here. In my messy bed piled with tons of pillows waiting for something-- anything to happen.

My favorite song is blaring in my ears.

"When I was 17, my mother said to me, 'Don't stop imagining,
the day that you do is the day that you die.'"

Ironic lyrics yeah?
My hair is scraped back into a lopsided mess as a result of my constant tugging on the curls. I have come to a state of numbness. I say I can do it. But can I really.. I'm always being the strong, independent one that goes for what she wants. Easier said than done, bitch. Sometimes I hate myself for acting so tough. Blah getting to sentimental now...

I think I'm all ranted out. Sorry if this was super annoying, but sometimes we just need to have a little chat with ourselves. I'll have a much more lively post later this week because I have a new camera!
Something to look forward to for all of us! Happy days.

Lots of Love,
Meg



Guide to Finals Week

Hello all. Hope you're doing better than I am. As some of you may assume from the title of this post, it is finals week. YAY. I'm exhausted and pretty sure I'm coming down with a cold. I am overwhelmed with emotions and snot. There is nothing glamorous about this post. The cramming starts today and I can't believing in a week I'll be packing up all of my stuff. There are a few things I need in order to survive finals weeks. Here are a few of the things I'm going to be using and consuming in order to get through this week.

1. Coffee: An obvious essential for studying for exams. Our library has a free Keurig machine so that's pretty dangerous.
2. Tissues: Because sick as fuck and I don't want to get my friends sick.
3. Cough Drops: So I don't sound like an old dying man lolz
4. Ice Cream: Calories don't count exam week. And ice cream makes me a happy kid.
5. Leggings: Make sure you have a shit ton of leggings clean because who wants to study all day in tight jeans. Ew.
6. All of your cords for all devices: You never know when something is going to run out of battery and everything is x10 more tragic when you're running on 4 hours of sleep.
7. A study spot: Change it up everyday, so you don't get bored.
8. Arts and Crafts: Do crafty things with your friends for study breaks.
9. Cookies: All women's colleges know the way to our hearts. There are cookies on every surface in every building for FREE. Remember: calories don't count, so take like 5.
10. Bra: Don't even try to wear a real bra. Wash up your sports bras and have them handy for each day. Note: no one gives a flying shit what you look like especially during finals week
11. Music: Make a finals playlist to make studying less miserable. We listened to Christmas music last semester. Disney music, Enya, or chill acoustic music is the perfect study music.
12. Furry Friend?: If you don't have a dog or cat living with you because college. Go play with the squirrels. There everywhere and ours are quite friendly. This can relieve stress.
13. Exercise: Run your little heart out. It releases lots of energy and makes you feel a lot better. It also helps if you have anxiety like me.
14. Water: Switch between water and coffee to stay awake and hydrated!
15. Friends: The most important component of doing well on your finals. Set up times to study with your friends and it will make it seems easier. Take over a classroom, go outside, drive to Starbucks. Take time to yourselves and plan out fun things to do for study breaks.

There are a lot more, but these were just some of the ones I came up with!

Now for a little goodbye to my home for the past eight months. I am going to miss this campus, my classes, and all of my friends. This year has been one of the best years of my life. I can honestly say I've learned so much about myself and I love who I have become. I feel so strong and confident here. Coming to an all women's college was the best decision I've ever made. I can't believe in a week I'll be packing all my stuff into my parent's car. I am excited to go home and reunite with my family and friends this summer. But this place is slowly becoming my home and I couldn't be happier.

I hope all of you have a great week and I'm sorry this post wasn't anything too interesting. If you're a student, like me, I hope this helped! Next week's post will be better I promise. Time to begin studying.

With sniffles and cuddles,

Meg xx



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